6/12/2023 0 Comments Okcupid doubletake distance![]() /r/OkCupid is moderated for quality, which means submissions or comments that provide little to no value - whether it be education, discussion, or entertainment - may be removed at the moderators' discretion.Slurs and hate speech directed toward LGBTQ, people of color, survivors of trauma/abuse, or any other undecorous content may be removed.You can post your own profile, but you cannot post anyone else's without moderator's permission.Do not post identifying information! Blur out the faces of anyone who isn't you. ![]() Most of all, enjoy finding someone who appreciates all of your idiosyncrasies, along with your face and body.Welcome to /r/OkCupid - a place for all things online dating, critiques, advice, and the weird little community we've built here. (Or, at least do them both equally.)īecause at some point, you will have to meet this person in the flesh or talk to this person via computer, and you two must be able to hold a conversation. If all you can talk about is how much you “Like” each other’s face, you probably won’t end up with a “Like” in the end.Įnjoy the questions. Physically being attracted to one another is always nice, but it’s only one-fourth of the battle. In order to make OkCupid, or any dating site, work for your needs, you should be able and willing to read more and click “Like” less. One of the reasons that OkCupid’s site asks so many questions, and makes sure to highlight profiles to let you know where you and other users agree and disagree, is so that you can see past the obvious. If you know a happily married person, someone involved in a Jada Pinkett Smith style “entanglement” or someone who enjoys the dating scene, there’s about 100 percent chance that that person has plenty of bad dating stories from good-looking people. However, as cliche as it may sound, “Looks aren’t everything.” Clicking that “Like” and “Pass” option can become extremely addictive.Įxpect minutes (or even hours) to fly by with you just clicking away at random photographs. Your biggest problem with OkCupid may not be which questions to answer or who to “Like.” The bigger challenge may be knowing when to log off of the website. It is up to you to fish out people who you really think are worth your time. However, as with any dating app site, no moderator or digital specialist can control the personality of the person you choose. If you are someone who knows what you want and will be open to conversation, especially considering the social isolation factor that has put a damper on in-person dates (or at least the same volume of them), OkCupid will definitely be worth the money. If you’re going to be as shy on the site as you may be in person, you probably won’t get your money’s worth. (In the time since joining this site for free, I have received 28 Likes that I cannot see.) Is it worth it to pay for membership? It really depends. Obviously, no one wants to have a bunch of people privately liking them and not know about it. ![]() ![]() Usually, you get what you pay for, but the mobile app creators of this site have done a fine job of helping you find what you’re looking for (ideally, anyway, assuming your “Likes” actually read your profile and don’t base their decision off of looks alone). OkCupid is surprisingly well-done for a “free” site.
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